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Mules,

I bet you laugh! Just to let you know, when I read that post, I was down, so it really cheered me up.
Thanks for that.

One thing I think is vital in this DB'ing process is never to lose your sense of humor.

Thx Bro! What a journey this has been. Still not sure where it's leading. There's just times I feel like I could have fought harder, you know? Yesterday was one of the tougher days - but we both know tough times don't last...

Vodka/Tonic???

Mules!! Hey buddy.

You are the rock. You have strength and honor in abundance.

And no one minds, in fact, we prefer if you keep posting and getting everything off your chest. We're your friends and we always wonder when you aren't here how you are doing.

I know about letters, cards, etc. I just came across some anniversary cards today as a matter of fact. I have every letter he wrote me in college and every one he wrote while in basic training and then tech school.

They still hurt us because we still love, despite the hurt. Love never was strictly a matter of logic.

Keep on keepin' on Mules. You are showing those boys what it means to be a real man. I am proud to know you.

Thanks Kerry - LOL! I have thought about that. This is more like a re-imagining.

It was both good and bad for him to read. He told me it was unbelievable to read how much she loved me and that he knew it all along. He said he wanted to leave them on the neighbor's door step with a note that read "she'll never love you this way". Then he told me he wanted to give them to her. I just let him talk. It was very tough to see him so upset.

I have a realtor coming to my house tomorrow night. It's time to get out of here.

Strength and Honor.

Respect.

Hey Alex. You are spot on. I felt like I had turned the corner. I had a lot of first dates. Remember Temptation Lady?? She has become one of my very good friends. She is seeing someone and we constantly bounce stuff off of each other. We still go out on dates - just as friends though. And I finally have met someone who really feels like someone I could be with. But today I am riddled with guilt about that, seeing where S15 is at. Even he was telling me to date just a few short weeks ago.

But I agree with you that I have to move on. So my attitude now is to just keep doing what I'm doing and see where it goes. I am going to be divorced very soon. Hard to fathom.

Strength and Honor bro!

Hey Greek - thank you!!! Very surreal, the whole thing. Twists and turns that I could never imagine. Thanks for always checking in on us and being able to look past your own bad taste in football teams.

Punk

Bears and Giants don't really butt heads?? and if they did, we know what would happen.

Thx EOTT - That's what was so hard. It confirmed just how far she had walked away. Very sad! She also talked about building our family and being together forever and how I can take care of her like nobody else. Like I said, it was brutal to read. There was also some stuff in there that I was defnitely not comfortable with S15 reading.

Strength and Honor bro!

No prob GIMA - so right about the sense of humor. I am very sarcastic and that is the first thing I lost. Everyone around me noticed. It finally came back.

I'm glad something I wrote here helped you. I am very grateful to this site for many reasons. I will be ok. So will you.

Strength and Honor.