Talk about the queen of Leave it to Beaver living! But, if he wants to resume that type of life, that is a good thing. He has a desire for the normalcy of family and home.
I don't know about the BB, I really haven't told H must, a little since I did the get together, but he also is very private and I don't think he would fully appreciate this.
Talk about assumptions, they can get the best of us.
He is just on a different timetable than you, we can't speed them up, or the potential for damage is great. As much as me all deserve the return to normalcy, they are slower getting there.
Will see... I overslept this morning, so I rushed out without breakfast. I called H after dropping the girls and we went to breakfast together. This time I wore red lipstick and he went to the office with the residue... I thought about 'accidentally' leaving some on his shirt, but I could not do it without being really staged. And it is a white cotton shirt (there are limits to my heroism...) He wants us to go to the bookstore and out for dinner today...
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
Breakfast sounds good, the red lipstick even better! Not on the white cotton shirt though!
I love going to bookstores problem is I see all these books I want and then don't have time to sit down and read much. Hmmm...maybe less time spent on the computer would help that out.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
No kidding! I have so much stuff to read on relationships now (yeah, I'm a guy...), and I LOVE to read, probably my #1 hobby - but I haven't touched them lately 'cause I've been on the BB all the time.
(Easing into piecing now, folks, see, I'm posting out of newcomers today... )
He wants us to go to the bookstore and out for dinner today... 
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