Oh, I was the CLASSIC "Nice Guy." Mr. Conflict-Avoider. Pleaser. Rescuer. Co-dependent to the MAX. I get my co-dependence from my mom's family (she is a recovering alcoholic -- 30 years sober! -- and so are several in her family), and my withdraw/poutiness from my dad.
If you want to go back and read all about it, it's all here -- I used to go by "Chocolateeyes":
I am going to wait on this...I have thought it out and I don't believe at this point it will be beneficial to bring this up..I need to keep doing my own thing and let the boat sail..I just get these thoughts in my head bc it feels like I want to hurt her like I am hurting so that is where this comes in is all..
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process
What is the deal about leaving the relationship...If the LBS tries to leave the relationship in order for a reality check for the WAS who is having an EA? Has anyone done this with sucess or unsucessfulness?
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process
