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Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
P Cater #1785509 06/18/09 07:11 PM
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Hopefully that's something that MC can help with. What are you doing to improve yourself?

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Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
volleydog #1785512 06/18/09 07:13 PM
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What did you do in the beginning to make her fall in love with you?
Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
Kittyfish #1785520 06/18/09 07:21 PM
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I have lost about 15 pounds and walking every evening. When I first her I was a very outgoing person who did alot of things with her. But recently I was just content to stay at home and not do anything with her. How can she notice that I am trying to change?
Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
P Cater #1785521 06/18/09 07:22 PM
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Don't worry about what she does or doesn't notice. you can't control anything about her, do things because you want to, she'll notice you being happier.

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Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
volleydog #1785527 06/18/09 07:29 PM
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What sign is it that she took off her wedding ring? Has she totally given up?
Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
P Cater #1785531 06/18/09 07:37 PM
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No idea you have two choices either ask her or don't worry about it. Are you sure there's nobody else?

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Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
volleydog #1785533 06/18/09 07:38 PM
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She reassured me there is no one else and I believe her
Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
P Cater #1785534 06/18/09 07:39 PM
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She stated we have a terrible marriage and it is in crisis mode
Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
P Cater #1785539 06/18/09 07:43 PM
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It might be more helpful if you post the details of your sitch. History of how you got to this point.

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Re: Separated for 3 weeks now
dug_in #1785542 06/18/09 07:45 PM
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We should have started counseling many years ago but it just flew over our heads. I posted sitch in another thread
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