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Gardener,
Me likey!

j-

j,
Me thanky!
Hope you read back a bit re: my comment about a)cross-threading and b)misquoting leading to a whole flurry of stuff by you guys on my thread that left me in the dust...

I've seen several references these past few weeks about a movie called Fire(something). Made a mental note to check it out. Now, I can't remember title and can't find thread references. Search didn't help. Can anyone help me out, here?

Thanks.

Fireproof.

Yes it's a Kirk Cameron film with a faith based company financing it. (For some people they'll be turned off by the religious nature of it). Others won't. Some will use a critic's eye toward it, but it really depends on your outlook.

Worth seeing. I rented it from Netflix as it's not in the theaters now.

J-

Thank you, 25ym & Sara.

I appreciate it and have put it on the Netflix list.

fyi, I would not ask your w to watch it. Just b/c it's clearly going to come off as pressure and pursuit. I am just now reading your thread so it may not be an issue for you anyhow.

But in case you were thinking of suggesting it, not such a good idea...definitely could create conflict and a sense of you blaming her. (Which, Right or wrong, is sooo Not effective.)

Take care and I'll go finish reading your thread.
J-

Thanks. I won't. I wouldn't. I don't ask her to do anything.
She's asked me to just leave her alone (as you all know).
This I do.

BigJohn,
We've hijacked PortlandDad's thread enough, so I came back "home" to reply.

I appreciate your advice, but my wife moved out 8 months ago, so the computer aspect of said advice is moot now.

And then again I realize that what we were/I was talking about really flies in the face of detaching, doesn't it?