Yep he was just a geek! No one even seemed to care that he was a dog too, just kind of took it for granted! I just loved the (I know I won't get this quite right)Stay Puft Marshmallow man after all he was a sailor...you just needed to get him laid! LOL
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
LOL! I loved Mr. Stay Puft...not becuase he was a sailor though. That was such a good movie.
Hows it going Kat?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
It is hot(heat wise) in the Merry Old Land of Aaahhhhsss. Had nice weather Saturday night and yesterday so I can't complain too much. Ex should be moving in with skank this week and that is probably why I haven't received all of my alimony this month. You know he always comes first, I am just a debt as far as he is concerned. If I could get him thrown in jail for that I would but they allow them to get 3 months behind before they do anything.
So I suppose all told he's a month and a half behind. At least he is moving in this lovely 100 degree weather so maybe I should be a tad happy about that.
All else is good. My parents have offered to help me get a loan for a new car as soon as my bankruptcy is discharged which will hopefully be soon. How is it with you?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Ok, kitty got worked up but the alimony will be in my account tomorrow. I didn't say anything to him, kind of have the "Let him hang himself" mentality. He is taking the kids to a ballgame tonight but is taking half a day off work to do it?? Whatever as long as he keeps his job please!!
Hope everyone else is making a wonderful day.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
It was 3.5 hours of catching up, venting and laughing. He got me thinking more about what I want even though that is something he won't do for himself. Made a comment that I am still analyzing and sometimes I just have to take it as it is.
Funny he doesn't remember half the stuff regarding flirt guy, or at least he says he doesn't but he would just remember somethings out the blue that made me blush! He told me what attracted me to him which I don't think I have had anyone spontaneously do before( oh and back then, not now). Don't know if we will make it to true friends again but it is out there.
Silly me made some comment regarding him that I had been there, done that. But I think he took it as I meant. We have explored us already and there really isn't anything lingering out there. He actually had three offers to do something and he picked me because he wanted to catch up. Nice ego boost there.
I do need to get out there more. Miss shy girl is going to have to get busy and put herself out there. Don't know how else to do that. I got to head off to bed. Have a good night everybody.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Made a comment that I am still analyzing and sometimes I just have to take it as it is.
I'm so glad it sounds like you had fun? Do you think you'll go out with him again? I do think you should put yourself out there sometimes and just see what happens. If nothing else you got a few laughs out of it right?
Ok, I'm a total analyzer, my first 6 months posting here, everyone kept saying to me stop analyzing stop analyzing. I do think I've gotten better about that, but you look at our WAS, both of ours for sure, I don't think do any analyzing, and that's not good either!!! Karen
I am a how does this work kind of gal, so totally like me to want to review things. He is a fly under the radar type of guy and doesn't think of anything as what he wants. I don't think I could live like that for a real long time. I mean yes, I do a lot of living for my kids but what I want is still on my mind!!
Kind of strange to say that I know he isn't for me. I am getting my fire and passion back and he doesn't have that or seem to care to have it. I want to dream big and live life to it's fullest! I know I am a bit much for some people.
He shocked me in a way, he asked me if I was happy. I started to qualify it and he said no, just answer are you happy...I said no. I have come so far but I have a lot left to do. Getting back to me and what my dreams are for me.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
You know he always comes first, I am just a debt as far as he is concerned. If I could get him thrown in jail for that I would but they allow them to get 3 months behind before they do anything.
