oooh that was good. I actually went back through the threads looking for some reference to 190lbs...what the heck was that???? and then kaBam.... I got it..... that's good LOL! I love subtle sarcasiim!
Hey cut me slack... I didn't get a lot of sleep last night.
Oh man. Talked to J this morning about exchanging the kids tomorrow. Asked him to be sure he gets them at 6 because I have plans. He immediately got all worked up asking if I had a date and saying stupid stuff. Blahblah... he made the comment, I guess I need to move on with my life... ummm, you did... you got an 18yo gf. Is that not moving on?? I told him I was having dinner with a friend and left it at that. I don't feel I owe him any explainations at this point. Always fun in the land of mlc.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
He immediately got all worked up asking if I had a date and saying stupid stuff.
I would just tell him your plans are none of his business. He gave up the right to ask you anything when he walked out the door. You didn't even have to tell him you were having dinner with a friend. Let him sulk.
Honestly, above is a nice way of putting it...you don't want me to type what I am really thinking.
IF you WERE seeing someone else then it's ok that they are. Despite that it also seems to tear some of them up. Its like they are all confused and don't know what they want.
Divorced is still your choice right?
If so then yes tell him its none of his business, or tell him you're going on a date with a kid who is heading to college and boy is he enthusiastic and full of energy. You know make him all jealousfied.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Alright. Texted J to tell him all of son's schedule for the next couple of days. I could tell he was with gf. He had told me he was working tonight. Not that I care, but AGAIN, he cares who I go out with because...... and I guarantee if I were to be going out with a guy tomorrow night, which I didn't tell him one way or the other, he would go freaking nuts. I'll never understand.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
