she does not have a thread, as her H is constantly home, and always around. She is emailing me to post her words.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
That is totally inappropriate. Please do not post on my thread(s)any longer.
Let me tell you something right now. What I said was not inappropriate at all, being cautious is not negative and I will tell you one thing more, you do not own these threads. As long as I post things with using appropriate language and courtesy, I will post whatever I want to! If that doesn't suit you, perhaps you shouldn't start anymore threads. I have a different way of thinking than a lot of you and many of you don't like it, fine, but I don't put you down for the way you think nor do I tell you not to post on threads because you don't agree with me.
I am pleased that MWG got what she wanted a h home, but given that he has no job and his mistress kicked him out in the early morning-where else did he have to go? It is not the actions of a repentant man but someone desperate. This is not the first time he has come back, or even the second. So yes caution is absolutely necessary.
MGW, has been here before and knows what will happen,but this is her life and the one she has chosen for so long now. I hope that this time he means it. I know she has the strength to continue and I wish her well.
I happen to agree with BH and Naej. In these situations, caution is always key. I too hope this works for MWG, but after going through this, there is a lot of trust and honesty that must be rebuilt. To not go into a reconciliation without some amount of caution may ultimately mean that the problems will resurface again.
I pray that MWG's husband has come to his senses. We all do. And we are all supportive of her decision. But care does need to be taken as this family has been damaged by this, and to damage it further would be a travesty.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
That is totally inappropriate. Please do not post on my thread(s)any longer.
Let me tell you something right now. What I said was not inappropriate at all, being cautious is not negative and I will tell you one thing more, you do not own these threads. As long as I post things with using appropriate language and courtesy, I will post whatever I want to!
I must have missed something. Please don't post on my thread sounds more like asking to respect a person's wishes. Hmmm? Maybe it was the roaring chant of Defense! I kept hearing when I was reading this .
If that doesn't suit you, perhaps you shouldn't start anymore threads.
Why? you don't own these threads either.
I have a different way of thinking than a lot of you and many of you don't like it, fine, but I don't put you down for the way you think nor do I tell you not to post on threads because you don't agree with me.
Again must have been the DEFENSE! I missed where you were put down and if something like that gets you all fired up, I can only imagine what a button pushing MLC'er could do.
I would sleep with one eye open. I would have felt better about the situation had he left on his own, but with her throwing him out leaves some unresolved issues IMO.
He was waiting for this moment because she is whacko.........
You are missing some very important points here....
God is/was in control.
We learn hard lessons for what we have done.
There has been a lot of communication all very positive.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I am pleased that MWG got what she wanted a h home, but given that he has no job and his mistress kicked him out in the early morning-where else did he have to go? It is not the actions of a repentant man but someone desperate. This is not the first time he has come back, or even the second. So yes caution is absolutely necessary.
MGW, has been here before and knows what will happen,but this is her life and the one she has chosen for so long now. I hope that this time he means it. I know she has the strength to continue and I wish her well.
Who said there was no repentance? There was!!! He did not like what he was doing. So much of this was very spiritual in nature and people who have knowledge of the Bible and Satan know exactly what I am talking about.
This is not a wish about wanting him home. I wanted whatever God had in store for me.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
