Friday Night H called again erm or should I say Sat morning, was in the middle of the blinkin night
He said he just wanted to talk
Anyway, he came round Saturday as arranged. We took D8 Bowling, Had a lovley time. Having got there, whilst D was taking her time to bowl, I said to H, where My Kiss, H kissed me and said I have your pressie. I said what is it ? H said yuo will see later When we got back home, H went out to car to get his overnight bag on the way out he gave me pressie. I went upstairs to put it on He came up and I said thank yuo it lovley. He said it sure is
I will miss the next bit out
In the morning, we were talking, when I suddenly started Crying. H asked what was wrong, I said, it just looking back in hindsight I can see what went wrong, I can see it all clearly now, however I didn't at the time. I said I was resenting him so much, that when he came to cuddle me I would not respond, at which H butted in with, I know Sue, I was doing that too. I said I know, and because you did it, I did it again. I said I can see it now, but I couldn't then, I was sobbing now, and H said dont cry, I turned to face him, and cuddle him and said H im so sorry it turmned out that way, he said Im sorrry too.
H then asked what I had planned for the rest of the day, I said its difficult to plan anything Sundays ( I have my Mum who has Alziemers), H said yeah I know. I said I wont pick her up till about 2, do you want to walk dog ? H said yeah ok. We went for a 2 and a half hour walk, whith dog and D8. Was absolutly lovley When we got home, H took his shoes off and sat on Sofa, Like the old days . I said are you staying for dinner. H said, yeah, Im gonna do and he mentioned some repairs that needed doing. So H got on with his manly stuff, whilst I cooked dinner( Reminisin) . He ended up going back to his flat at about 10pm We kissed goodbye. never made plans.
Sue, Wonderful! I think I know the ! Real cute! When you said you asked your H for a kiss and he gave you one, it reminded me of a couple months ago, when I asked my H for one and he didn't even hesitate and gave me one. I said I'd like a better one, and again I got what I wanted. It's good to remember these little things! Keep up the good work! It's nice your H decided to stay longer! Deb
1) H called me Twice whilst on buisness trip to say he missed me 2) H wanting to stay longer on visits 3) H said sorry ( i said it first lol but he still said it) 4) H Initiating Intimacy frequently 5) H and I are able to talk R talk with no problem.
Things I have been doing have been working.
1)Giving H space 2)A little more persuing ( IE: texting H whilst on Buisness trip) seemed to initiate him calling me later.
Funny thing I forgot to mention which hapened on Sunday, just thought of this.
If H could describe me, he would probably say I have nagged him at times ( Lol I would of disagreed) One of the books I read was; how to get through to your man, withou nagging.
On Sunday. I was about to get in the shower, when I turned round to H and I said: I have made a pot of coffe down stairs WOULD you go pour me another cup?
I normally would of looked at him all stupidly and said Could you go pour me a cup ??
Well His reply made me stop in my tracks!!! he got up of the bed made his way to the door and on the way he said.... " You have narf got bossy!!" He was laughing as he said it.
At first I thought, have I just said something awfull. Then I thought about his reply and I decided, I think, he quite liked the way I ASKED FOR WHAT I WANTED.
Hey, Just a question here to anyone who thinks their WAH is in MLC??
Do hey suffer with short term memory loss ??
I know its a funny Question, But Im getting seriously worried about H, His grandmother did get Alzhiemers, and My Mum has it so I know the signs, and Im not Kidding, his memeory is frightning.
I noticed it before any of this, his memory was bad and it was worrying me, that was about 3 years ago. Now its definatly worse. Example:
Last Friday H asked what I was doing for my 40th Birthday. Then proceded to ask me if I wanted to go away with him, to which I replied, of course, I would love to. H then said ok I will sort it.
Last night H sent me a text, asking me what I was doing for my 40th Birthday, I replied, Errrrm going away with you?? He replied, How do you know? to which I replied because you asked me. To which he replied, you are fibbing!! To which I replied, why the heck would I do that. He then called me and said when did I ask you? I said Last Friday. I got a little shirty at this point, I was upset he had forgotten. He apolagised and said Im sorry Sue I just dont remember. To which I said Ok, so Im doing nothing now, so what did you want He said to ask you to go away lolol I said Ok, well at least your consistant He then said he wanted to take me to new York!!! Anyway, is this memeory loss a MLC thing ??
erm or should I say Sat morning, was in the middle of the blinkin night 
