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Hey K, yes it is so quiet isnt it? I think Piecing is even quieter still. I just want to check up on all my friends, I have been so stupidly busy today.

Wow, so he is acting in ways that you can trust him then... leaving his phone lying around, giving you his wallet. I know you asked him his decision and it is maddening he didnt yet say ANYTHING to you (sheesh, nor has my bf, not a word, how can they operate like that!?? Its just not natural, anyway...) so we wait still, in different ways, for some kind of conversation. Although, actions speak louder than words hey and he seems pretty committed to you, is all I can say.

I'm sorry he only kissed your shoulder.. did you turn to kiss him too, or kiss his shoulder back? or his cheek!? Or his lips!!!?? I know you dont want to risk it.. but whats the worst that could happen !? He would probably like it. Its very very wierd that you have been here for what, 7, 8 months, but no sex. So strange. Is he taking bromide !!?? And yet random sleazy men are emailing you asking for sex!!

I wonder how tommorow will go then.. Mercury goes direct I think.

Hugs and love, Al xxx

"As I type this he is sleeping in our bed with both our kids with him so there is actually no room for me there."
You're sure?

"They are young men age 35-45, good looking and obvioulsy totally f@cked up in the head."
I suggest you take away your picture(s) and set your status to "married" and "unavailable"! We all know how beautiful you are.

Sunshine!


So, you got my FB message, eh? Good! So?????...

Ok, sorry. Couldn't resist that one!

H is trying in his own way, but unfortunately his way of trying is very "trying" for you.

Loved what Ian posted. Broke it down to the core. 100% in or get out. Loved it, Ian. Good stuff!

Thnking of you, my dear.

RTL

Kalni.... I don't think I've posted here before, but we're in about the same place "emotionally and intimately," but not physically. My H still lives at home, etc...

I felt compelled to post to you today! I LOL'd at your FB wall posts that you talked about. After so long not being intimate, I'm SO glad they don't come my way!!

Good luck. You are an inspiration in patience. Today, I have decided, I have a timeline. We'll see what happens with it.

PS - I lost my V to a Greek! 1st day of college! LOLLOL Don't think I ever talked to him again.

Hey mindblank!!
I've been meaning to post to you too before. I learnt timelines dont work with me and just add to my frustration when they run out. I feel stupid afterwards...

Rob that was a good one, I agree.

fb2, carried them both away, he sighed and turned to his side.
I havent said I am single and dont use Fb as much anymore.

Yes Al, I turned around and kissed him. He went on to is business...
Good Morning everyone!!
K

Good morning sunshine! Hope things on your side of the world are going swimmingly! Beautiful day here so I'm hoping to get out in the sun for a little while....even if it is just to mow my lawn.

IMO, keep showing him little signs of affection, but only if you mean them. If they are forced and fake, then why bother? Your H is a strange one for sure. I don't think I know of any man that could be in bed with a woman who he is, at the very least, attracted to and not want sex. That just doesn't seem right.

hmm.. I dont know, I've been turned down 3 nights out of 4 and WE are supposed to be piecing also and newly back together.. you'd think they cant keep their hands off us, but it doesnt seem to work that way.

I dont know whats going on anymore. Confusion reigns !!!

K.. I will post your beads tommorow. My course finishes at 9.30am !!!! xxx

"I don't think I know of any man that could be in bed with a woman who he is, at the very least, attracted to and not want sex. That just doesn't seem right."

I have to agree with this 100%...I think I may have mentionned it once or twice to both K and BBJ. Hell I even know guys who have had sex with woman they do not "really" feel attracted to.

Anyhow, that is my take but some males may disagree....

I completely disagree, especially when it is your wife who you are currently astranged from. That missing intimacy would be a huge Stop sign.


Ian

Indeed. There has to be 100% commitment from both sides.