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She won't go anywhere. At least not yet. Go by what they DO, not by what they SAY.

Well tonight is the first test of the boundries. I stayed home to watch the hockey game and she went out to watch the game with girlfriends, before she went out we talk and W said she would be home at a sensable time the game just ended at 10:25pm. We will see when W gets home. Also udpate---- she went to look at more houses today with kids. The kids have no idea that W does not plan on me moving in with them. Also, she tells me over and over she that there is no OM, which at this point I might beleive only because she has told me and thing... The reason she leave and does not come home is because she can stand spending time with me???? But yesterday and today we have got along pretty good. I thing the lake of my outburst helps, and my pretty good mood. I'm trying to treat W as if she was my best friend.

Do not believe anything she says, remember, right now this is not the woman you know.

Burt

Well she came home at 3am...... I'm pissed off. I told here by no means is that a sensable time and her reply was I'm going to do what I want to do. I'm wondering what I should do?

Oh, I think you know what to do. Your doubt is in the "doing."

Puppy

Time to not accept this behavior, and if you think that she is not fooling around, it is time to take the blinders off.

Burt

Tonight I'm going to tell her she can no longer use the car to go out and if she tries to take the car I will report it stolen to the police.

Do you think I should confront W about OM or men?

Do you have proof? That makes a difference.

If you have proof, then yes. Make SURE, and then take a strong stand.