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Some days are better than others, huh? Your determination is a good thing. I know it's hard to stay positive, but a certain amount of time has to pass...while we do the work...before our days will get better. They will too!


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Thanks for that, I have to admit my words are determined at times but its harder to make sure my actions follow suit, but I am trying. I agree a certain amount of time does have to pass...just wish I knew what that was!

Well the day is mostly done and so far I completed 1 of the 2 goals. By 3:30 I hadn't done either, so made myself get up and go to gym even tho it was the last thing I wanted to do. Glad I went now, I'm sure I'll sleep better tonight for it.

Still need to crack on with #2 and get some work done tonight...

I can't get the thought of wanting to confront OW from coming back into my head. I push it out, find something to do, but keep coming back to it. Especially after reading some recent post over on the infidelity/affairs forum including the subject. Has anyone done this??


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
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H just text me, 'would you like to meet up and talk about the money stuff next week? I am free mon & tues.'

On friday he said he'd like to get together and 'catch up,' now he says talk about money, I felt like saying, is the only reason you want to see me bc of money?

Don't know if I should go or not. Honestly I want to see him. But not bc of 'money' stuff. It's been weeks since I've seen him face to face.


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M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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