Well it got up to 35 celcius here today... It was a quiet weekend. Put away the rest of the winter clothes, cooked, cleaned around the house, etc etc.
H was pretty calm, he couldnt move his neck and was in pain. I voluntered to rub his neck and he accepted. I told at him at a point I dont know how to behave, as if we are together or to be divorced and explained that's why I kept away when he was with the kids, isolating myself in the bedroom or watching TV. He smiled and hugged me and said "come on and join us then" which looked like he was saying I am silly. We slept together, no touching whatsoever...
I am calm and thinking but I have control over my mood. Which is far better than what was happening. He still owes me a reply and I think him staying over without even asking was his reply in a way but it is not good enough for me. The question remains. All the way in ( ) or out? xxx K
He smiled and hugged me and said "come on and join us then" which looked like he was saying I am silly. We slept together, no touching whatsoever...
Well, he was a bit lacking in the verbal communication, but I'd agree his body language was pretty clear and positive! The fact that he slept over again is also very positive even if he still isn't wanting to be more intimate because of ___ (stress, work, guilt, fear of rejection, or just the distance he perceives between you two).
All the way in is better!
(((Maria)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Hey M! Well, I wasnt expecting you to say that he had come and stayed over and sounds like he was pretty relaxed around you. Shame that beaver of yours is still in its glass case, lol. Cant you just hand the man a damn hammer !!??? I like that you explained to him also why you stay out of the way when he is there because you dont know how to behave. But yes, he does owe you that reply !! I feel like I, or we, turned a bit of a corner this weekend, but nothing said yet. I was wondering if you felt that you had? Of course, nothing will be said yet, because Mercury is still going backwards until 1 June.. and H is a Gemini, which is ruled by Mercury, so he will be even more reticent to speak up than normal! If thats possible
I saw Star Trek too Michelle, it was brilliant wasnt it, and yes, totally lined it up for a sequal, cynical b*ggers, still, I will be going to see it when they make it !
) or out?