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Word.

Just got txt from W. "did you pick S up? What r u guys doing?"

Duh, like I didn't pick him up! Gonna ignore this txt.

I wouldn't ignore it if it's about your son. Wait about an hour, and then reply back "Sorry, just saw this. We're fine! ttyl"

Yep, exactly what I did.

Well, W came home pretty late last night - but came home. The thing that causes me the most anxiety these days are people in her life pushing/support her. They here story, and just keep the momentum moving for her. I know I can't control it so I shouldn't think about it, but are there any DB skills on dealing with friends/sister/etc encouraging WAW?

Only thing I can think of is to try to counteract their influence by exposing the affair to other key people in her life that would be more supportive of the marriage.

Puppy

I still don't have a "smoking gun" or any real proof of an A. I would think if I bring it up to others she will just deny and use it to strengthen support and evidence of my "controlling, lying" ways.

Oh.

What do you think is the level of "evidence" needed to expose possible EA/PA to friends/family of WAW?

Ironclad.

A keylogger on her computer, copies of e-mail(s), a GPS on her car, or a voice-activated recorder under the front seat of her car ought to do it pretty quickly, if there is anything.

Puppy