-What I got was a man for reasons he only knows and doesnt share with me -that treated me as an obligation and duty but not as someone he loves. -he borderlines sadistic behavior towards me, not caring about my timeline, my emotional state - That he seems to overlook that I was left behind, had to take care of the kids (emotionally), myself, finances, had to deal with his affair, his distant behavior -he generalises things to weaken my arguements - I asked him to tell me things he feels good about and I was willing to listen. He didnt say anything. -He still is self absorved -he acts selfishly
Do you really think he is going to change?
Kalni....read Bill's posts again..that's all I scan say...or..ask yourself WHY you still want to be with this person...or..what is it in YOU that needs THIS kind of man? FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
Well, he changed to that unless I was blind all along. He could change back. I am not saint either. So for every one of his "bad" qualities, I have one too.
Today he called me in the afternoon. Seems his insurance will give me back half of the money I gave to the dentist for the kids
No plans for this weekend. Have a good one everyone, K
Well, he changed to that unless I was blind all along. He could change back. I am not saint either. So for every one of his "bad" qualities, I have one too.
See, that's what makes you so wonderful. PS. But there still appear to be some invisible barriers (I know this sounds a bit corny but again I'm not joking)
