M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
30 pounds I didn't need to lose to begin with. Barely maintain 104 pounds.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Lost 28 lbs. in 3 months!!!! Feeling good about the way I look again. Would like to lose 40 more lbs. before my 40th birthday. At this rate, it shouldn't be a problem at all. Yes, I was overweight and did not keep myself attractive for ME or H.
This is the one silver lining in all of this.
Me 39, H 41 M 17, T 21 Son, 4 Bomb 2.09, Two EAs Separated 8.4.09 My Long Story and First Postings
though loosing weight can help boost self image be careful of the so called "divorce diet". If you are not excersizing or trying to loose weight in a healhty way the weight loss you are seeing is not healthy. It is a sign of stress on your body. Make sure you are eating healthy, getting rest and excersize.
Lost another 5lbs in the past month - slowing down in weight loss, but not I can say I am actually eating a lot healthier and exercising to lose the rest of the weight 15 more to go
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story