K.. I am again amazed. Your H was very brave to try and kiss and hug you like that. Everytime you post stuff like that I feel really sad for him. I said all along I feel that he DOES love you.
So... how did it feel to be pinned down by your (handsome) H and kissed on the head??
How about NOT talking later? How about running a bubble bath, lighting some candles and just inviting him to get in with you and scrub your poorly back instead!???
I know, I know.. shutup Al, give it up.. you're not interested in him...
We didnt talk. We had dinner together, he gave the kids baths, put them to bed and then he put on his shoes and left. I didnt push for a talk because I am cranky due to my back and I didnt feel like I had the energy to do it. I think that if I had the impression I would hear something different maybe I would have pushed but I feel very tired tonight, it was the first really warm weekend we had and didnt want to end it like that.
I actually wore sandals tonight, Friday night went for dinner at the marina, by the sea, yestreday had lunch with my 2 BGFs by the sea again, so it was a full weekend. My kids were so cute and loving today. Ohhh, and I bought my mom a silk blouse with the money I got from the paintings -she didnt like it much but was VERY pleased I bought her something.
All and all a good weekend. Even the interaction with H wasnt bad. He still avoided having the convo but it's OK.
(My son gave a little pot with basil, he had painted the pot and had a heart stuck on it saying "of all the smelling flowers, my mom smells the best", a poem for moms we have.) K
Ali, having him hugging me felt good. I dont know if it was because it was him, or because it feels good to be hugged by a man other than my brother and dad (and son).
"Later my D asked him to hold me down so she can tickle me..." That's one may to turn him into a "Superior Man".
"I stayed in bed because my back is hurting a lot today. " This adds to the labor cost for those paintings.
"Now H is gone with the kids for a walk but I couldnt go." Looks like he likes to take walks? Perhaps with you and not the kids?
"All and all a good weekend. Even the interaction with H wasnt bad. He still avoided having the convo but it's OK." As long as you can live with it. He may need some positive affirmation from you instead of the dreaded "talk".
"The only time he tries to get close to you is when you are actively pushing him away. Keep pushing." Once he's close enough he would not need to "try" would he? It's like the N and S pole of two magnates. I wonder how he feels about this on a scale of 1 to 10?
fb2 I think you are right. My back is hurting a lot today and I think it is because of all the hours I spent leaning forward while painting. But today I felt so good when I saw that mom tearing up when she saw the painting (could get me some orders too, lol).
The kids like to walk at a "path" we have at the mountain that's 200 meters away from us. Everybody is walking their dogs there and you can see the islands, great view and my dad used to take them. Now my dad wont do it anymore and they asked H. Of course he came back the minute a game started...
I have no idea how he feels. I cant read him. Tonight I can live with the no talk result. No problem whatsoever.
K, You have been complaining of back pain since you started painting.
"I have no idea how he feels. I cant read him. Tonight I can live with the no talk result. No problem whatsoever." Pick a safe topic, ask him and listen carefully. Unless he's from another planet he's got feelings in there.
(Today I was given a rose at church for "Mother's Day" - I felt quite embarrassed and luckily my kids were not there. But it do see this an apt symbol of the natural beauty and wonder of a woman)
The rose is the ancient flower associated with the planet Venus and the goddess Venus and of course, Venus represents.. womankind. The glyph for Venus is the standard sign for female, as the symbol for Mars is the sign of men (dont know if they get a flower though to represent them symbollically!?)
