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I am sorry that you have finally received the papers, you fought very hard for this Marriage to work.

I am so proud of you though, because you have grown so much and are not sitting around feeling sorry for yourself.

I think you are the poster child for GAL!!!

(((((hugs)))))

Hi BND and Vali,

Thank you for your kind words. - Yes, it is hard to get the final papers but at least the weather has been nice and it makes me less sad.

Today was a beautiful day and I met a GF to go for a long walk on the waterfront. Afterwards we went for a drink and sat outdoors in the sun. We always have a good laugh.

The next couple of days are supposed to be nice as well but I have not made any plans yet. I am hoping that "my sailor" will contact me. If not, I will have to see if I could meet somebody else.

H has not let me know yet if he is OK. I still care and worry about him although it is not my responsibility anymore. I guess I will never stop caring and worrying about H.

I wish you both a nice week.

Journaling:

I didn't want to go to the hair dresser first but went in the end. I found quite a good one and was finally pleased with the cut. Therefore, I asked her if I can book her next time and she told me that she will stay only for another month! My luck - if I ever find a good hair dresser she/he is never there the second time I go.

I was waiting for a call from a GF who told me she might come for a drink with me in the evening, but she had to work late and by the time she called I was almost at home.

Tomorrow is supposed to be another beautiful day and I am not sure if I should call "the hiker" to go hiking. "My sailor" did not answer my e-mail and I think I will have to give up on him. He seems to be very unreliable and not much interested in me, but as the saying goes "curiosity killed the cat": I would like to at least meet him once to see what kind of person he is. I will probably not like him at all but I am anxious to find out.

Hi True !!

Just popping in to say hi ! Glad you're enjoying the weather ! Isn't it lovely when the sun shines ?!

I'm enjoying having contact with a man I met trough the internet, he seems keen to meet me, and we have a lot in common, I even dared to call him last night...yikes that was weird... hahaha !

Doing really well, feeling good !

Got my blood taken at the doctor's today as my joints were still sore and I still tend to hold fluids in my feet and hands... (strange..)

Take care and I really hope you'll get to meet your sailor !!!

Hi Cinders,
Thanks for dropping in. I left you a message on your thread.

Hey Vali !!

You know, even though I am starting to get to know someone I met on the internet...I agree with you that it isn't the best or most reliable way to meet someone !

I haven't kept looking on the internet... I'm ok with how it's going and if this doesn't work out, then I think fate will introduce me to whomever I am supposed to be with !

Take care sweety !!!! xxxxx

True...

Thanks, I'm so glad you understand me so well right now...it helps to know that !

Love to you and have a great week ! xxx

Hi Vali,

Nice to hear from you and thank you for your wishes.

I hope for you that you will meet your Mr. Sexy Voice after your D again since you seem to really like him.

My sailor stays silent and I think I will try one more time to contact him and ask him to meet me. But after that I will give up. He seems to be unreliable and I don't like that.

I know from a GF that one of her FF also met terrible men on the internet. However, I heard of others who met their H through the internet. So who knows what is best. The internet platform is getting more and more popular with all age groups.

I will go to the place with live music on Friday again and maybe one of the three guys who flirted with me last Friday will be there again. And this time I hope he will have the currage to talk to me.

I know that finding a good hair dresser is essential but I am always out of luck.

I wish you a good rest of the week. Take care. (((HUGS)))