Being unemotional with these guys is the best. That way you can think logically and not with your heart. Facts are facts and I am sure a judge will see that.
Keep me posted!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Hey, I didn't mean to pass over the comments about BG's issue with the "son". I feel the same way. That child is innocent. He had no choice to be born into this. This was "their" doing. But, for now, K is my only concern. Feelings for that little boy...well, that will remain to be seen.
I'm hanging in there today. Only 2 more days. The anticipation is killing me, I broke out in a rash...nice. I have been having dreams about my H...and he's nice in them and feels remorseful. Like I said, "just dreams".
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I'm still okay. Trying to get the loose ends together for court tomorrow. But, overall I'm okay. Nervous, but okay.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
I will be praying for you tomorrow. Just remember to not let you emotions get the best of you, and it is okay to show a little, IMHO, this IS your child your dealing with, so I would think it should be expected to show some concern. You don't want to be stoic. But you do want to be confident in your abilities as a mother and provider. I know you will do great though!
It's nice to see that H is actually showing sadness with his D. It's sad that it had to be this way, but perhaps this whole sitch, will not only create a better person in you (which i know it is) but maybe him too in the end.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Hey, I just wanted to check in. I'm scared to death about tomorrow. But, I feel okay. All I ask is that you all pray for K and I. It's going to be tough. Today, I pretty much cried all day...just trying to get it all out before tomorrow. I'll post as soon as I can. But, please.....you're prayers are needed.
Love all my DB family
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
