She did end up going to Cali to visit brother was there for about 12hr or so then left very upset according to BIL. They did not talk about what the hell is going on in her head but he believes she is upset about a mix of his health situation which he says is nothing to worry about and our current M situation. Leaving as early as she did is not the norm said she had to work on mid term for college. I think she might have just been too upset to deal with family. I do hope she is ok though but whatever, im kinda starting to get really irritated with this whole thing.
Hopefully DB coach calls tomorrow...
Did almost get D3's playground built today ive been working on this thing all week was alot more than expected but she is starting to get really excited about it so that makes me happy.
I'm starting to firm my decision to fight for full custody of my D if W does go through with this. I hate to do it but like i said in earlier post I am sure its whats best for my D.
I really hope to get more than 2hrs of sleep tonight (havent gotten more than that all week) and to not wake up tomorrow sick to my stomach...
Not sure if the W not contacting me today is a result of moving in the wrong direction or not with the DBing or if she is just so overwhelmed with whats going on in her life that she doesnt really want to deal with anything right now. Like I said earlier she left BIL's house crying and very upset and nothing specific happened before she left...
I hope everyones monday is a good one I am praying for eveyone here.
W text me 0530 on the dot with goodmorning again i waited about 30mins to text back but i stared at it for about 10mins trying to decide to even respond or not...
She text me as soon as she gets up, im the first thought on her mind...what the hell...
Roller-Coaster. We've all been there: hot then cold, push us away and then call/text incessantly. Bi-polar the extreme. She doesn't know what she wants; wants to have her freedom/independence, but doesn't want to lose the family/kids.
Be strong AG! Just focus on you and your D until the ride comes to a complete stop!
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
As far as the text goes, do the opposite of whatever you normally would. Make that a 180 on your part.
My therapist diagnosed my W as bi-polar in abstentia based on what I told him about her. Hard to know how much is fog-induced and how much is internal crazy.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
normally i would text her back right away and tell her goodmorning, like i said i waited about 30mins to text her back this morning. So i guess that i should just not text her back tomorrow and see what happens... I guess if it goes the wrong way i could always tell her that i left my phone at the house...
So.. W text me "U never told me if u got the swing set up and what not..."
What the hell does it matter she left, she gave up, she doesnt talk to me all weekend then she wants to know if i got something done that doesnt have any concern to her its for my D at MY house she has decided to move on, look for her own apt. and what the hell is what not?
Dont know if i should leave it unanswered for awhile or just answer her that its just about done and D loves it...?
