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checking in...

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and again. Just wondering how you are!

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Hi Mat,Tal, DOc, CL,

Im'e doing fine. Sorry if I worried anyone but,
I am really trying to focus on me/us and what I want in life, thus the reason for staying away from the boards. I feel that sometimes reading and talking with others that I don't focus enough on my task at hand.
We are ok. H says he is still having a hard time but it isn't like he is sick he says or feels bad all of the time just depressed some times. Says his feelings for OW came after all his issues started and he knows it isn't real but still has feelings. Is that MLC or what. In any case I am patiently waiting for him to come back to earth. I certainly realise that I do not have it nearly as bad as some.
Well that is my life latley in a nut shell.

Will talk more at some point soon.

JAK


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Jak,
It sounds like your H is opening up a bit more. Good for him.

I support any decision you make that increases self-care. Thanks for stopping by to say hello, and letting us know how things are.

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Heh, JAK--glad to know you're away for a reason...self care is critical!!! I just care, and when you just seemed to disappear it concerned me. Thanks for the update! (((JAK)))

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Mat,CL,Tal,Doc

Name has been changed to protect my privacy.
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Hope all is well... jojo... Call me. If you can I will be out tomorrow from 11am-til about 2pm.. call me on the cell.


me: 37
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Married for 18 years this june
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
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Are you ok?

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Mat,

Thanks yes I am.
Just switched the name because I gave some people this site.
Trudging along waiting for winter to end here. I think everyone is in a winter funk and I hope it ends soon.
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I, too, hope that Spring will lift our spirits!

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