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Originally Posted By: D Money
I just wish we had access to their checklists and could burn the d@mn things.


Hey man!!

I think she doing a pretty good job of burning whatever "new" thing she tries on her own. I just takes time. They are really going to regret all this one day, you can be sure of it.

For now I'm keeping my distance from the craziness and inevitable self destruction that is creeping up more and more each day.


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I'm sorry, I'm having a hard time adjusting to her saying she would take S but not D because she is sick. Being a mom myself I would want my kids with me no matter what. Especially at that age. I've never said anything mean about your W but I'm going to have to call her a "mother" and not a "mom" after that.

BTW, you handled the whole car situation great.

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Originally Posted By: D Money
I just wish we had access to their checklists and could burn the d@mn things.


Hey man!!

I think she doing a pretty good job of burning whatever "new" thing she tries on her own. I just takes time. They are really going to regret all this one day, you can be sure of it.

For now I'm keeping my distance from the craziness and inevitable self destruction that is creeping up more and more each day.


That's why I love ya brotha. You bring me back to center and focus.

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I'm sorry, I'm having a hard time adjusting to her saying she would take S but not D because she is sick. Being a mom myself I would want my kids with me no matter what. Especially at that age. I've never said anything mean about your W but I'm going to have to call her a "mother" and not a "mom" after that.

BTW, you handled the whole car situation great.

Happy Easter Trapt!


Hey! Thank you Happy Easter.

Yeah, you don't know how bad I wanted to just pop the top and tell her like it is. That approach isn't going to work. If she says it again however, she will be reminded of what it means to be a parent.


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Originally Posted By: D Money

That's why I love ya brotha. You bring me back to center and focus.


It's all in their playbook man. Just part of the game. We have to do our best just to keep moving along and not expect anything rational from them.


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My stbx gets the girls 96 days out of the year and got mad when I asked him if he could keep them an extra night a few weeks ago. That was one night!

He also thinks because he pays me child support he doesn't have to buy them anything when they are with him. He spent $15 on youngest daughter last weekend and told her to tell me I owed him 1/2 for it. WTH?











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Originally Posted By: trapt


It's all in their playbook man. Just part of the game. We have to do our best just to keep moving along and not expect anything rational from them.



I know but I still stray from time to time and let it get to me. You set an exceptional example for me to follow and I appreciate that.

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Originally Posted By: D Money

I know but I still stray from time to time and let it get to me. You set an exceptional example for me to follow and I appreciate that.


We all stray. Especially me. Oh boy do I have my fair share of slides. You just can't dwell on them and keep making the same ones.


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My daughter has had an upset stomach last night and all day to today. I called Miss G to let her know because she is supposed to have the kids for easter. I told her and the first words out of her mouth were. "well I'm not taking her." I said what do you mean it is your day? "Yeah but I'm not taking her if she is sick, I'll just take S.


That is just hateful.

My old MLC mind tells me she's performing Sunday for someone - meaning D would screw up Mommy Dearest's show if she's sick. Just a guess though...

Trifling, selfish, UNmotherly...I have others but they aren't fit to type.

That precious little girl is better off with her daddy every day.
Your son is too for that matter.

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Well, I can't even say anything appropriate about a mother refusing to take her sick child, so I'll just shut up.

Kids and I will be on our own for Easter. Big shocker there.

I hope everyone has a great Easter and the Easter bunny brings you lots of candy. \:D


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
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"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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