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Trapt, one thing I am learning from all this is to let things go. Cant change them and it doesnt do any good hanging onto them.

y?But, what the heck do I know anyway?

Trapt,,,,,,, personally?

I think you handled this with style, dignity, and grace. Don't doubt yourself with the I should haves, and shouldn't haves.....

Would you say that you are a better friend, father, mentor, than you were six months ago ?

You can move forward holding your head up high......

But I still don't think this is completely over yet....

Just my thoughts....

Yes I feel I can say that.

I think the should haves will fade away soon. There is no point in holding on to them.

Trapt,

Fun and games aside, you are a great guy. I may joke with you about things but I do think you are one of the few men (yes, I said men and not boys) I can say I respect. You stood for what you believed in and never faltered. You gave it your all. Many men would have given up long ago but you didn't.

I'm glad I met you and that I can call you a friend. Believe it or not, you have taught me a lot about myself. You have been one of the people on these boards that taught me that I really was an ok person.

Ok, enough mushy stuff......back to the fun!!!! Unless of course you can't handle it.

I doubt it is over. I still believe they all come back in one form or another. MLC that is.

Not in my case. Mine is not welcome back.

Then you are one of the few that fully understand what DB'ing is about, and that is saving YOURSELF first......


whatever is next , will happen in time.......

Never said you let them back in, I just said I think they all come back...like sniffing around to some extent.

or like in a Stephen King novel.

Hey trapt, I was wondering about you last night. Glad you are doing well. You have given me a lot of good advice on this board over the past few months, and I am so appreciative for my new friends : )