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LOL!!!

One good thing we have against her is that we don't have to mow grass year round.

Have fun cleaning your truck off and shoveling. I feel for you.

Ha! yeah right....I'm sure if you saw me out there shoveling you would be cracking up.

I'm not looking forward to the drive to work though. It's like if we go a while without snow everyone forgets how to drive on it and they drive like idiots.

You should see it here when it snows/ices about 3 times a year. It is waaayyyy hazardous to be out on the road. Not fun.

A whole three times LOL! I was hoping we would be done and over with this stuff.

Yeah I'm a little anxious to see what will happen this week as far as the trial goes. Not looking forward to it, but looking forward to having this settle down.

Okay, you're right. When I get up in the morning and think of you and the snow I am going to laugh. I'll make sure I say a special prayer for more and more snow for you. I know how much you want it.
It was warm enough here today for shorts but tomorrow will be rainy and cold and back to long sleeves.
You all have a good night, I'm heading to dreamland. This was my big girl/no kids weekend and I am worn out from the GAL. Time for a good nights sleep and back to mom mode.

That's why it's so hazardous--lol b/c we Texans don't know how to drive on it. Only ours is not really snow, it's like sheets of ice with a little white stuff thrown in.

Well, I hope everything goes well for you this week. I'm really hoping all we will have to do is have this hearing, get the temp orders in place, and come to a settlement. I hope no more court appearances. As of now I know of no arguements we have. That could all change though... especially when he gets mad about the og thing. He's going to see that as me forcing him to "choose" between her and the kids. Little does he seem to comprehend that he's already been choosing.

Well this may be what he needs to go through in order to come out on the other side. Only time will tell. I'm sure deep down he really misses the kids. It's hard to imagine with all the crazy and mean behavior, but they do still have feelings. I'm sure there is an awful lot of guilt for what he has done.

Are you sure they still have feelings??? JK
I do have to think that all of the showboating about how "happy" he is attempts to cover up the guilt and unhappiness. It's a very sad situation all around. It did strike me when he told me on the phone the other morning that he didn't know what happy was anymore, yet at other times claims to be just great. I guess I should be thankful that one of us has our head on straight right now for the sake of the kids.

Their emotions are all over the place, and yes they put on a happy mask in front of others.

Your right you have to be the strong and responsible one for the kids.

Alright. I've got to get in bed. School tomorrow, and yes, another baseball game. Have a good day!!