Sorry I havent posted for a while.. but this all sounds positive and kind of not surprising really.. I dont think any of us here expected that you had given up on the hope of reconciling your M complete;y (well I didnt anyway!) but it continues to sadden me that your RLers arent so supportive of your feelings. Thats a real shame. Guess stuff like this really sorts out who your real freinds are, or who you can and cant rely on when life gets tough.. I have found that out. It kind of polarises things with the people in your life.. are they are on your side, or not? I suppose they just dont 'get it'..they see the facts... H ran off with someone else, a while ago now.. he's a b*stard.. he doesnt deserve you/you deserve better/theres plenty more pebbles on the beach etc.. but its not as simple as that hey.
Its great that the wall is coming down a little and he is able to admit his wrongdoing and then offer to be friends with you. But.. whilst OW is still around, guess you cant really truly be friends, well, tahts been my experience anyway. It makes it that much harder hey.
Great that you are planning to go travelling though, thats brilliant !
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
