By saying that he wasted 30 years of his life...he is projecting his own issues on you. A real man? NOT.
They do this...they place the blame on us. They must..or they are left to face THEMSELVES.
Use this time to obtain clarity and improve. Hold onto what my C told me...you were living and working within your M with the tools you had at the time. Correct those things you don't like, forgive yourself, and move forward. If you wallow in the self-victimization and blame world...you'll be stuck forever.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
