Happy Easter! Ooooh the lamb sounds good. I will keep you in prayer. Your h seems to be way out there. Not even communicating when he comes over or hardly communicating.
Do you find this odd?
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Because I am an outgoing person, I have never hesitated to say hello to anyone but the last few weeks, I have felt like he does not matter to me so I say nothing.
He has been like this since he moved out--not saying anything unless spoken to. He'll say nothing, get his cup of soda, go outside, and then ask: "Where is S18?" Seems to me he is once again hiding behind our son, using our son as his security blanket and our son is the only one he can feel secure around. I think this is because all of the stuff that has happened prior to his moving out--talking to ow on the phone, etc., he did it in front of me and the girls not in front of our son.
It is mental and so abnormal.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Right now what matters is that things are progressing and God is working and that is good.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
What I and others don't need on our threads is more negativity and smart-ass remarks from people like you. Please refrain from posting on MY threads.
I really cannot stand bitter people. It brings the rest of the group down and that is the last thing they need when reading these threads.
Why should you give a crap whether my husband is with the OW and has no job? Maybe he is not with other woman.
Give it up already. And please do not post on my threads anymore, braveheart.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG stopping by to say hi. You are right what we need is encouragement not negativity. For those of us who CHOOSE to stand, it's difficult enough and we don't need the sarcasm.
I hope you are doing well and your spirits are good. What's on the menu these days?
Hugs!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
