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How are you doing today, NNP?

I am doing pretty good. Thanks for asking. I bought myself a new ring to wear where my wedding ring used to be. it is a silver band that says FAITH and I love it!

I've noticed a pressure on my ring finger now that I'm not wearing my ring - in response to my WAW not wearing hers. I'm sure it's psychosomatic, but feels weird.

Anybody else have that sensation on their empty ring finger?

Nice choice NNP.

BrianR, I can't say I feel a pressure but I had an unconscious habit of feeling my ring with my fingers on the same hand. I didn't even realize it until I took my ring off and my fingers still did their habit without the ring there! It's decreased dramatically finally but just the other day I caught my fingers in their old habit.
Why did you take your ring off?

Time for an update?????

To be honest my sitch has become so bizarre I don't know where to start. Maybe tomorrow I will hae the needed energy to type something out.

Tanks for checking on me...

(((NNP)))

I like it :-)

I love bizarre! it is the new normal. Just like 50 is the new 40.

I have tried to type some stuff but keep deleting, thinking better words will come at another time. Since that hasn't happened I guess I will just say that the last few weeks have been VERY up and VERY down. I am not proud of some of my behavior, but the good Lord has been trying to teach me something and I am finally ready to listen and accept the lesson I think.

I had a crying spell this morning and I feel a little broken. I will not get to go to my al-anon meeting at noon due to another appointment, but I do have C this afternoon, so that is good.

I know this is not really much info and I am sorry, but i just can't bring myself to type it all out right now.