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I am not sure if they are saying just get it off the jack or what. Maybe another thing to add to my list of todo's. Well February is going to be a better month because I said so!!

kat

Busy week ahead. I have parent teacher conferences Wednesday and Thursday nights and I need to get my taxes done and I need to deal with the darn car. Just never ending.

No new news about my niece. Again taking some time to just get all my stuff done. Went to the B Lawyer yesterday and that went fine but have to go back Feb 21 with the goal of filing at the end of the month. Just now that I have to get it done. Hope everyone else is doing fine.

Karen I will try to get the movie either tomorrow or Tuesday.

kat

Kat, no rush whenever you can fit it in is fine. Please don't stress over that. You have so much on your plate! When you have time is fine!!! I've got a busy week too, lots of applying to jobs this week and packing!!! I think I'm going to need a vacation in a month or 2!!!

Karen

Kat. Just wanted to let you know you and your family are in my prayers. ((((hugs)))))

Thanks Corey! I am trying to keep things as simple as possible as far as all the stuff going on in my life. Wed. and Thur. nights are parent teacher conferences, can't change those and that is fine. If I don't get my taxes done until Friday perhaps, that is ok too. But really the sooner, the better.

The biggest issue is the car. I got a hold of a good friend and he was able to loosen the darn lugnuts that I couldn't(or ex for that matter). So now I just have to have ex jack the car up a tad more so that I can get the tire off and go get it replaced. Most likely tomorrow night.

So now personally I am just a bit de-stressed. Get me to Saturday and hopefully I will actually be able to heave a sigh of relief. it does look as if I will have to pay an additional amount on mortgage or as a lump sum because when ex filed B it caused attorney fees with the mortgage company and since I am keeping the house, those fees are now mine. Bugger!

I will just try to keep thinking peaceful thoughts. Really not much else to do to keep me going. Probably a good thing that I don't have someone in my life right now, I would scare them with all the chaos!! lol

kat

Whew....you are having some crazy stress prone events happening. You're a strong lady, Kat.

(((kat))))

I am learning that alot of people think so anyhow. I know that I am, but I do have that moment of doubt or when I just have to cry first and then I dust myself off and get to it.

I have had such a high level of stress in my life for such a long time, I don't even know what it would be like to not have any. I would probably overload and blow a circuit!

I have to learn to just take a bit longer time out and decompress. Easier said than done.

kat

hey girlie. dont ya love our ever changing weather? so your neice handled the chemo ok? I really hope it goes well for her. I have been on two diff kinds, one that really made my hair fall out, with some nausea and the other not much bother to my hair, but omg made me so sick. I am saying big time prayers for her!

you my girl, you need a vacation lol!! keep hanging in there you are strong. trust all us we see it and kno!

This weather is crazy, looks like we will have an awesome weekend. My time with the kids, I am hoping I have some of the "issues" taken care of so that I can de-stress even more. Maybe even take the girls to the movies while the boys are at my parents.

I do need a vacation but won't have any money until next month. Maybe I can do a long weekend with the kids for Spring break.

kat

yes aside from the wind its gonna be awesome!! I hope you get to get a break. i have been begging for one for a year, stil nothing yet lol. maybe sometime we could meet in the middle somewhere for a while!
remember to breathe, and if it gets to bad, go break an old plate or something!