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I hate her too

I hate when thinks sneak up on you and set you back. It really does take your breath away for awhile. I have had a few of those.

Ok, just like my snooping because OW and exh live so close...don't look at the FB. Delete him as your friend. I know its beyond hard to not look but its only hurting you.

(((BS))))

good for you girlie on the softball! i love to play, it will be a great stress outlet for you.

dont look at the fb anymore, not worth it, and no way she is as pretty and beautiful as you!!

"It hurt nonetheless."

I know that it sucks to see that stuff. I remember this one well.. I had a very similar thing happen. I don't know why we go "looking" for this stuff and then are surprised somehow. The easy thing would be to stop looking at it. At the very least he is going to create some semblance of a life.. that is going to involve other people. With her being pregnant.. you may see some things that make this really hard for you. You have to make the choice to not let it bring you down. Don't do this to your self.

Anything else going on?

Sounds like softball was fun.

Still upset about the FB thing. I don't want him as a friend on there because I will look at the pics...I know I will. I can't stand this, really. Why would he put those on there? It's really NOT like him. So, I keep telling myself that maybe SHE asked him to or asked why there were no pics of her. Who knows. She has my family. Those should be pics of US and K, not that homewrecker and her kids with MY H.

hi b

have a nice day.

peace be with you


T

Its fake. Just like we talked about the other day...their relationship from the start has been fake. She took (willingly) another womans husband, moved him in, paid his bills and got knocked up. They may smile for the camera but deep down she is petrified he is gonna bail. I have noticed OW in my sich doesn't look all smart a** at me anymore. She looks worried.

That is what happens when you base your life on a BIG LIE!

Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
SMW

Thanks you guys. I needed the lift. I agree. I know she is scared sh!tless. Who wouldn't be. Little does she know he is trying to find his ex-girlfriend. I think one of the things that hurts is that if he is looking to bail on her, why is he looking for his ex instead of coming home to me? I know I don't want him the way he is now...but, the idea that I'm NOT an option, sucks.

Thanks you guys. I needed the lift. I agree. I know she is scared sh!tless. Who wouldn't be. Little does she know he is trying to find his ex-girlfriend. I think one of the things that hurts is that if he is looking to bail on her, why is he looking for his ex instead of coming home to me? I know I don't want him the way he is now...but, the idea that I'm NOT an option, sucks.