Quoting makinit: you say that "time and truth are on our side". so true. i just dont want to wait! there is no doubt that this M is worth fighting for and i will keep on DBing.
Day by day, my friend ... that's how you will get there! ... and what many here have found helpful is to seek out the positives daily and post them here. By listing at least three positives a day helps curb that anxiousness and re-enforeces the patience to let the end result develop.
I am very new here, but I think any interaction with OM is probably a no win situation. W may get angry you bringing him up, or angry you confronting him. I think that kind of thing is more for you than for her & M
Hi Mak, welcome to piecing. You are saying what all of us feel. Why us, it wasn't our fault (boo hoo). But that's the problem it was, just as much as our WAS otherwise why would they walk away? This is a HARD road to travel with many pitfalls, what's up one day is down the next. Like Shiny said focus on the positives.
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
