Try24no-thanks for the MLC info, I think I will try there. I know my daughter wins. I asked her if maybe some day, I could move back into the house and she told me no, she likes things the way they are. I was a little disappointed that she said that. Even though I'm not trying to get her in the middle, I just don't want her being mislead. the weekends have been great family time, but I was worried she was waiting for us to get back together, but shes not.
Best thing you have done is get away from the OM. Keep spending time together on weekends, going to church is great as a family. He probably wants a R with you, but he has been hurt, especially with you staying with OM. Take it slow. It may take yrs. But love is worth it.
Hi Elwood--how's it going? Ex is picking up my sisters entetainment center for me and bring it to my parents house--movers are coming on Sat. I hope me being in the same town doesn't mean that I will not be able to go to the ex's house like I used too. I know it may take years but I an really afraid that after years of living byself that we won't get anywhere and I'll end up with nothing--I know shouldn't think like that, but I do! I got really jealous the other night--didn't sleep all night. I was at ex's house bring d home from dance, he was on the phone with one of his tenants. this happens to be the tenant that he asked out over the answering machine and I confronted the tenant and she said that she never returned his call and that they are good friends. So just the mention of her name and I go crazy inside! But I know that if something were to happen, it probably would have already. But our counselor told me in one of my sessions that he was interested in her, so she is always in my head, maybe because we were still married when he told the counselor this. Now my his brothers wife is trying to fix him up with some teacher's at work! For some reason I get all parniod when I hear this kind of stuff, but the ex goes food shopping every Friday night with our daughter so he wants to be with his daughter on prime date night--thats a good thing! but I guess I need to work on my confidence! I want my ex to be proud of me for getting my own place, I have been trying to get things just right. I gave him the key and told him he is welcome anytime!
