T, you have every right to be angry. Your h is making some big mistakes. Nothing you could say will change his mind so just do what you have to do for you and your girls.
Unfortunately the children are the ones who suffer the most. All we could do is be there for them and make sure they know they are loved.
Find your own happiness. Take good care of you. Let him blow in the wind. His loss all the way around.
Seems for awhile I will be a full time single mom instead of like it has been. That is ok because my kids come first. I will not have to give up anything to do this either. I will learn to juggle things around.
I am hurting right now, not for me but for my girls. They are the ones who are getting the short end of the stick here.
Just wanted to say hey before I take off for a while. It does hurt to see what our children go through. Do your best to be there for them in every way.
Watch what you say, he is still their father. Your daughter is old enough to see the selfishness on his part. Remember it is up to him to be an adult and make amends with D15. Don't let him put that on you.
4 years ago today my stbx walked out the door. I am a little saddened but I look at how far I have come since then. I am better off without him.
I have been trying to get in touch with my lawyer for a week now. The papers were filed almost 2 months ago but so far nothing from the courts. I am tired of waiting. My luck they have lost the papers or something. I just want it over and done with.
Picked up the newspaper this morning and find out that the place my stbx works may close down due to massive statewide layoffs. So much for working for the state. This would really cause a big problem as I need the child support he gives me to make my house payment. So, if he loses his job...I could lose my house.
