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my monkey brain is wishing she would just leave my monkey a$$ alone. She freakin nuts.


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Well trapt, of course she is. MLC right?
A decent looking husband, a downturn economy, two (I believe, 1 for sure) beautiful kids. A husbands who is not saying " [censored] you! You [censored][censored][censored] whore."
But instead is trying to ride this out.

Something you're doing is rubbing her the wrong way. Is it something good? Or are you anti-DBing?



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Well trapt, of course she is. MLC right?
A decent looking husband, a downturn economy, two (I believe, 1 for sure) beautiful kids. A husbands who is not saying " [censored] you! You [censored][censored][censored] whore."
But instead is trying to ride this out.

Something you're doing is rubbing her the wrong way. Is it something good? Or are you anti-DBing?


Or, maybe nothing you're doing is rubbing her the wrong way.
Or, the fact that you're DOING nothing is rubbing her the wrong way.
Or....
Or....
Or....

"So what is happening here?"
"Who the hell knows."


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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Well trapt, of course she is. MLC right?
A decent looking husband, a downturn economy, two (I believe, 1 for sure) beautiful kids. A husbands who is not saying " [censored] you! You [censored][censored][censored] whore."
But instead is trying to ride this out.

Something you're doing is rubbing her the wrong way. Is it something good? Or are you anti-DBing?


Nothing trapt is doing or not doing has to be "rubbing her" one way or the other.

Have you forgotten sometime MLC women are just bitches, Jack?

Perhaps it's just me but that last comment sounded like you were saying whatever bug is up her ass is up there because of trapt and that just isn't necessarily the case.

I'm sure you will correct me...

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Ambush?

Fair enough.
She could just be a bitch.

My take, is that trapt is doing well and she is redoubling her "crazy" assualting the walls because trapt isn't responding like he normally would. She isn't just pushing the button anymore she's hitting it with a hammer...and oh look...nothing.



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Ambush?

Fair enough.
She could just be a bitch.

My take, is that trapt is doing well and she is redoubling her "crazy" assualting the walls because trapt isn't responding like he normally would. She isn't just pushing the button anymore she's hitting it with a hammer...and oh look...nothing.


No ambush here - just a considered opinion...sometimes, "It is what it is."

Although I do like the rationale, Jack. It makes a lot of sense.

Hmmmm...."crazy" as a sign of progress? It wouldn't surprise me.

Nope. Not one bit.


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Not sure you need an MLC to be bitchy... : )



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Give the gift that keeps on giving.

Bitchy AND MLC......

For the spouse that has everything.


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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Trapt, T2...

It's the time of the year. It's like cabin fever or spring fever, it will make you want to move...usually poorly.
Suck it up, find other venues to get rid of your excess energy or overabundance of thought.


Any suggestions on how I am supposed to do this? I have tried everything and all it does it brings me back to square one.











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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Not sure you need an MLC to be bitchy... : )


Now I know you are talking about me. I will admit to having that problem. I am not MLC but I will admit to being one of the biggest bitches around. That is why I am where I am today.

See, I took the first step. I didn't deny. Proud of me? That is the first step of finding me again. I just want to leave the bitchy me away from the new me.











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