Hi Jack I was told I needed to read your story. I was trying to find it, but new to all of this. I would love to read it if you still have it somewhere. You gave me some advice earlier and thank you. I would esp. love to read about a couple that's made it. I know a lot have, hence my hope, but the more I read, the happier and more hopfel it makes me.
1) I don't really like re typing this, every few months. For personal reasons, I don't like going home to my wife with emotional baggage from reliving the hell of this, and having her wonder why I'm in a funky mood.
2) Do work. Right click on my name, and view posts, look for the ones I start they are the ones without a RE: in front of them. I say do work, because it proves to me that you are willing to do it, I have noticed that the ones I hand everything to on a silver platter...are the ones who complain the most and cannot get better, they want everything sanitized and brought to them, and it makes me wonder why their spouse ever would return if this is how they had to return. After a month or two I learn my lesson and stop wasting my time.
Make sense?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
I don't know how much picking back I can do though. I'm getting ready to drop a reality bomb on somebody tonight and I just don't feel like letting that go at the moment.
It's the time of the year. It's like cabin fever or spring fever, it will make you want to move...usually poorly. Suck it up, find other venues to get rid of your excess energy or overabundance of thought.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
