I think it is because we have to take on the parental role. Somebody has to drive the bus, so to speak.

The way to get out of that parental role for me has been to insist that H do everything himself. Including filing and other paperwork for D.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D