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Oh that is so immature.

I have some funny ones about MLC and infidelity if you would like to share those with her......

Hey Frank, feed that anger.

Just don't become a future TV movie of the week, ok?

Bill

No problem. There's a difference between anger and rage.

Why are you angry?

Honestly, do you have a reason?

Yes. I have been betrayed, my kids have been betrayed, I work as hard as I can while in pain and get no appreciation. Yet I still punish myself instead of expressing my anger when events come up. I can go back 10 or more years to all kinds of events with all kinds of people where I didn't express my anger. Instead I took on blame.

I am angry. Not hurt. Angry. No, I'm not sitting here festering over it. I'm just saying that I choose to push the hurt outward so it can be the anger that it was originally. Then, when the appropriate times come up I CAN express it. I can be myself, someone who is allowed to get angry.

Instead of the little boy who wasn't allowed to express his anger.

Hmm, would that be considered harassment or just bad taste?

It would be very interesting to see the response I would get.....

Frank,

I totally hear what you are saying...
I am glad you are expressing yourself.



But did something happen today?

Hi Frank!

I seem to have alot of anger from being betrayed as well. Trying to change that anger into acceptance. I am sick of being angry and hurt and the reality is its not changing the situation. I am the only one hurting and angry.

I disagree Startingover, right now anything that moves Frank forward is a good thing, if it is anger then so be it, as long as he doesn't wallow.