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Hi Val!!!

Thanks but I think we all deserve great things after what we all have been through!

My H was in such a silly mood all weekend and I enjoyed every minute of it. My S was in Dallas with some friends and my H actually ran around the house naked!!! What a sight!!! He is such a goof!!!

Y

TL

Thanks for stopping by!!! We had a nice time at dinner. My H starts his shift on Friday, I can't wait!

I hope your weekend was fantastic!

Y

Hi YR,

Great to hear you had a nice time with H.

My week-end was quite good as well and I had a lovely day today.

Have a good week and take care.

There's always something funny about naked men running... oh yea the flip flop, flip flop

Glad to read your post... Silent Cheerleader turned me to them but I don't know how to reference further back ones. I am at about 8 months of reconciling and we hit a bit of a rough patch last week... so I am not really sure where we are.

Sandycay

It was really funny to see him run around! LOL

We had a few rough patches too. Don't let that discourage you. Talk things out.

My other threads are in the MLC archives.

Y

Sandycay,

Piecing takes time and patience.

Rough patches are OK....you are learning new ways to communicate with one another, don't be discouraged.

(((hugs)))

Hi YR,

I wish you a lovely week-end. And no more running around naked - it is too cold at this time of year - LOL. Take care.

Hey, YR (& Snodderly if your watching),

If either or both of you get a chance to stop over on my thread, I'd sure appreciate it. I could sure use your voice of wisdom.

I had some backsliding recently, but am doing better about that now, but I am feeling so discouraged and hopeless about my whole sitch. S17 is pushing every limit we set, and H had now "dropped" him. So, now there is really nothing to draw him back to me, and virtually no opportunity for him to see me in a good light. And, his memories (which he has re-created) aren't going to to bring him to miss me.

H and I do have a session together this Wednesday, and I don't really know what to expect. He says he doesn't see the need to discuss more about S17, so I don't know......this session was prompted by a meltdown I had last week, but I am surprised he is keeping it after everything that has happened since then. I'm afraid whatever it is, is not going to be good.

Anyway, thanks for your time....

[[hugs]]

HI MOM!!!

Just stopping by to say Hi...Hope you and yours are well...

Hey, by the way did your H ever serve you with D papers? A friend got served with papers and it hit home....mine could very well be next...just curious...

Treese

Treese

No my H didn't ever serve me. I know that he was calling around to alot of lawyers but that was it. He threatened me continuously. I was scared too.

Y