I am with you, Frank. I believe that we have both done enough. We need to focus on nurturing ourselves and being the people that WE will be comfortable being.
Talk to you soon. Good job.
Letting Go Tom; JUST DO IT! previously hopeful_husband
my A: Fall 05 W found out: Feb 06; separated immediately W pursued D, final 7/11/07
I'm good today. At the suggestion of 25yearsmlc I'm going to go see 'Yes Man' tonight. And I'm also looking for things I can 'join'. Time to GAL, get out of isolation.
for the record, I'm a film buff and do some work in the field, and I didn't say "Yes Man" was an Oscar movie...but d11 forced me to see it, and I do like Jim Carrey's comedy, so we went. Then, to my pleasant surprise, there was something heart warming and a little provocative in the otherwise sappy message. Saying "yes" to the universe, GAL, and not staying stuck in isolation after being rejected...kind of seemed a little timely and appropriate to some people around here... It's probably a good time for lots of folks to see it. Hope you liked it (enough).
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
WTG frank...same advice I talked over with Jeff. Get out...choose ONE thing...and do it. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
STBX came over today to print more brochures. Luckily the printer worked better today. However, she has problems understanding how to do things to get both sides printed and messed up. I didn't say anything negative and tried to be helpful but she was frustrated.
I smiled and was coordial.
While waiting for the printer to prepare itself, she stood in the doorway of my office and looked away. She seemed kind of sad or uncomfortable.
She went back to 'her room' and I guess she was updating her checking account information. She came into my office a few minutes later and said that she needed to transfer the $120 she put into the 'house' account for her share of the cell / insurance bills back to her account because she 'made a big mistake'. I said 'no problem'.
Didn't talk to her after that. She went back to her computer work and then left.
I felt a little anxiety but I'm ok now. I was kind of glad she wasn't being cold or angry at me. She just avoided me.
You heard it...leadership, negotiator, justly treatment.
Now...where are those Red Bull gals?
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
