ot, I swear, whatever spine he had left it is gone, even if it benefits the kids he'll just go with whatever she wants. She doesnt' use a seat for her kid so he sees no need to use one for my daughter. Seeing my d5 cry and seeing him act so cold killed whatever feeble connection that still attached me to him. He's a horrible empty person, whomever can make my little ones cry or ignore or blame it on them (he said he is "putting up" with my son's behavior relating with gf/kids)is not worth a penny, and all the time I wasted feeling his absence, I will fight even harder to banish any longing for him, he's not worth it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
I see that same coldness in my STBX Its like they found a way to shut down and be stones MY IC said that as long as the kids have one stable parent, they will be ok they may have issues but who doesnt we are the stable parents and Im trying to hold a higher thought for my STBX eventhough I doubt we will reconcile, I hole the thought that he will progress spiritually and become closer to god and a better father and man eventhough at this point he is a shodow of a men, it still helps me to hope for the bets for the sake of my kids peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
I'm not sure why your actions with the car seat have anything to do with why he isn't using a car seat for your D. It doesn't matter whether he decided on his own or is a mindless zombie under his significant other's control. Either way, it is still illegal and dangerous for him to put D in the car without a car seat.
