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Hey Sandi2,

AmyC was recently banned from the board. The thread has now been deleted I believe. Sorry to break the bad news to you. She is an amazing person who contributed so much here and I along with many others miss her dearly.

Why was Amy C banned?

Sandi, I have never posted to Amyc directly,but Ihave read alot of her posts,and read about her incredible journey.Thanks for the heads up. I read about her vision of seeing her husband kneeling at the foot of the bed after she came out of her mlc.

So Amy was banned,interesting.she helped many people ,that is truly a SHAME.

Sandi One who helped immensly in the beginning was COG.He hit A FEW 2X4'S when I needed them.AmyC will be sorely missed.What happened?

Oh my gosh! Maybe we need to go to the moderators as a team and ask them to allow her back on. What on earth happen? She went to bat for so many others. I know she talked plain, but so do a lot of people.....including me.



Sandi

She last posted on 1/1/09, in this forum, so I don't know if she was banned or not.

With regard to Amy C, she was banned for posting her email addy.
I read about in on BND's thread as someone wanted to get in touch with BND and had asked Amy to help her contact her(BND).
That is if I understood the thread correctly.
I guess you can track them down in the alt universe.

After church yesterday I thought about my situation with my wife. She is not a believer, and I know what the bible says about divorcing an unbelieving spouse. I have no leg to stand on if I actually wanted the divorce based on her unbelief.But since I do not it is up to her. I know the Lord is working on her heart, and I know I will continue to pursue God, and his will.It is certainly comforting knowing he is in control!!!

Craig, you have a hard road, my friend. I applaud your courage and I know God will give you strength. Your W will watch your "walk" before the Lord, but I would advise you to be careful and not act......you know, "self-righteous" b/c it really turns people off. I know you wouldn't do anything intentionally to hurt her chances of becoming a Christian, but sometimes when it is a loved one, we tend to want to push a little bit. Even my H can say things about me going to Church when I've had to miss b/c of sickness, and it just really works in the opposite way from what he wanted. I know he means well, but it is like he is playing this "game" with me and I know him well enough to read his mind, almost. So, don't try to always get her to go with you to Church or have Bible study and that sort of thing. Leave that up to God. Not that you have....I'm just talking. Just pray and walk the walk.

I do believe it is much easier for a husband to lead his wife to become a Christian than it is for the wife to try to lead her husband. I suppose b/c I am old fashion and think that the man is the natural leader in matters such as that and the wife is a natural responder to his leadership. I know it can be done by the wife, but I think it is hard. I have known some women, personally, that prayed for years, but their H's finally became Christians, so don't give up.

You impressed me from the day you came on the board. I believe God will honor you by trying to live in obedience to Him and stick to what you believe the Bible teaches. You have Him on your side, so how much more do you need?

Take care, and God bless your efforts in your M,
Sandi