A kiss is to touch or press with the lips slightly pursed, and then often to part them and to emit a smacking sound, in an expression of affection, love, greeting, reverence, etc
I don't undertand his uncomfortability. Why does he say he is uncomfortable.
What is he angry about?
Stop justifying yourself to him. He knows he should want to do all these things and that it's not unreasonable that you want them. That's why he has all this negative emotion...he is broken, he doesn't know how to fix it...he thinks he can....then he fails himself.....enter the guilt, hositility, depression, desperate to move away from what causes all this pain. I am not saying you are causing it ....he is just running from all things.
If you need to talk email me from the alt unv and we can exchange numbers.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
A kiss is to touch or press with the lips slightly pursed, and then often to part them and to emit a smacking sound, in an expression of affection, love, greeting, reverence, etc
Weird.... Wait, I seem to remember something like that.... Naaaa, must be my imagination!
You hit it on the head. He is pissed at himself, at the situation, not at me. He is the one who cheated on me, left, came back, left, came back.
I am the one who was too needy at times, admittedly, but who has learned from my mistakes and never abandoned the marriage. I have been fighting for our marriage this entire time and he knows it. I have been faithful and loved him even when he was unlovable and he knows it.
I don't know what the discomfort is about. At Retro when we did descriptive writing he said it was that irritating scalp-itching feeling....Each time he has come back he has wound up saying he is 'uncomfortable' in our home.
But I know that I am NOT the problem. The problem is, I don't think he can pin down exactly what the problem IS...
I know your philosophy but I am telling this again: the longer you let him stay there, you make yourself "target", responsible for what is going on in his broken head. You give him someone to blame, you. Bbj, I wish strength for you. You are going to need it... K
A kiss is to touch or press with the lips slightly pursed, and then often to part them and to emit a smacking sound, in an expression of affection, love, greeting, reverence, etc
I was trying not to give Jeff a hard attack...oops that was fruedian!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
H texted me after school yestderday that he saved us $750/yr on insurance by switching all of our policies to a different company.
That was sort of random, out-of-nowhere. I mean I knew he was going to switch companies but after the earlier exchange about him being pissed at the word it came out of left field.
I replied back "thanks. going into the YMCA to run and then getting the kids"
He replied he was grabbing a beer w/Tom and coming home. Then he wrote "tomorrow plan is taxes and you and me and life".
Well that sure narrows it down
H called at 6:30 he was going to check on his mom b/c yesterday was her first chemo treatment for her bladder cancer. He got home at 8.
I had a big blanket out on the floor for Friday Night Movie time (weekly tradition with the kids). Dan lay on it with both the kids and then the kids asked me to lay on the other side. So we all lay together on the floor. Nathan said it was 'great family time'....woke up at 12:30 am and put the kids to bed.
Fell back asleep on the floor. Woke up at 3 and went to our bed to sleep until morning. H was in there, he went in around 1 I think.
Now kids are watching cartoons. I am getting ready to gather our tax info...yay!
Later MIL wants the kids to come out at 3 so H and I can go to our nieces b-ball game (high school) and then out to a piano bar with SIL/BIL for SIL 40th bday. We'll see it that actually happens...
