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They want their cake and eat it too! Like we keep telling each other it's a roller coaster.


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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me

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Hey Craig

Whats been happening?


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Jeff,

Not a whole bunch, today is my youngest daughters birthday, she is 15. We are all going to dinner tonight to celebrate.By the way , don't beat yourself up too much, just get up and start again. This is a marathon not a sprint.


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Hey Craig

Thanks for the support I just have to get through this little bump at least she is still being pleasant but I have to not let myself become the victim and regain the confidence I had when she was leaving.

Have an Awesome time with your daughter!

Cheers
Jeff


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My wife and I took our daughter out to dinner for her birthday tonight.It is so weird to sit across the table from someone you have been intimate with for 20years and who you loved, and feel absolutely no connection with. It will take a miracle from the Lord for us to ever reconnect.She is not the same woman I have known for so long. She talked about trying to get a hold of her attorney to help her finish the settlement agreement, but she cannot seem to connect with him. He has not contacted her for 4 months. She does not seem to be in much of a hurry.I hate this.


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God works in mysterious ways. Her L has not contacted her and she cannot connect with him. Keep praying..........I know how painful it is but hang in there.


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H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
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MWG,

Yes God works in mysterious ways. I see everyday I am still married as a miracle.You know how hard it is though.


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The longer this goes on the more I know it will be the supernatural hand of God that turns this situation around. He alone has the love to do the impossible.


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Hi Craig, have not talked to you in a good while. Have you ever posted to AmyC? Or if you have read any of her background, it would help you. She was here somewhere. She doesn't post all the time like she did at one time. She was the one in the MLC and has been trying for years to draw her H back into the M. She would be a good person to talk to and maybe give you some pointer about how a woman in MLC thinks, etc.

Sandi


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Craig, I found her. She is in this forum if you want to post to her. I did not say anything to her about you b/c I didn't know if you had talked to her before or not. She is a goody.


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