Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums Midlife Crisis Midwestern Girl 01/05/09

Snodderly could it be he misses a connection with you.? Me I would probably be inclined to chat, but that is me. Look at my ex h 14 years later. Maybe your h is waking up.

Hey MWG, glad things are going well!

Hope everyone is okay today.

H is a no show today and none of us have had contact with him since Monday and at that time he said he was coming on Wednesday.

I have kept busy but like Glam says, it is irritating when they do not call or show when they say they are.

It bugs me because I am a very prompt person and I know how I am in the business world as well as in my personal life.

Oh well..........we'll just let him be.

I'm sorry H didn't show today. It's just so damb selfish of them to just do whatever/whenever without a thought to you or your kids.
MLC...gotta love it!

any tips on the online stuff? I have been playing with selling some stuff on e-bay but I'm too chicken. Thought that if I could get rid of some stuff around here to start with, then maybe sell some crafts there too...

Take care (((MWG)))
TOH

I really haven't been thinking too much about my h other than to think how very childish his and ow's behavior is. I say this because I have been monitoring my kids phone logs (we have a family plan) and ow calls h right when she gets off work everynight. Funny thing is she works less than 10 minutes from where they live and he calls ow when he is on his way to our house and when he leaves. He and I never called each other like that. Call it what you will but I would say she has him on a short leash and loves the control.

Tips on your stuff. Go for it. You have nothing to be afraid of. It is so easy and you will be surprised at how successful you can be. I make more there than I do in 6 weeks time at my part time job--sounds unreal but it is true.

Sorry MWG that your h was a no call now show. I know the feeling, so I can totally relate.

Put the focus else where. You can't change them. Sounds like your business is going well.

Not focusing on my h hardly at all the last few weeks.

He very rarely calls any of us any longer. He used to call S18 almost everyday now rarely calls him if at all. Takes hours to return a text message from the kids, if at all anymore.

He has not texted me in over a month! And he called me just once in the last 6+ weeks.

I don't know if this is good or not considering he is able to handle anything I have to say which has not been mean or manipulative. And we get along fine.

Hey MWG....glad to see you are handling things pretty good.

Yeah, I am doing fine.

It's interesting how WE have to work our behinds off to keep the family intact, put food on the table, etc etc etc while they play around in their MLC world.

I wish I could classify it as a mental illness.

Hi all!

I have been keeping busy today!

Need a car for tomorrow and texted h to see if he could come over so I could use his car and he responded with "What for?" I almost said I was driving to Vegas but said I need to go to the post office, UPS store, and grocery shopping. He did not respond and got kind of fed up and sent him a text saying forget it........

I will just have to work around S18's work schedule.

I think the thing that gripes me so much is I am over here working my butt off trying to make ends meet on mine and the kids end, take care of the house and them, make sure they are fed, etc. and H just sits over there all day, his car sits and it is like this day in and day out.

Okay, I am finished airing it out for a day.

Thx for listening.