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I think that's a sign you're doing a great job DBing. I enjoy making the D tougher for my H too; by being kind, considerate, polite, but distant. And strong too. I know it pisses him off which makes me happy too!

LIS, I'm glad you're still posting. I know it's tough, and sometimes you've had more hope than many of us you know. I know that things are going to work out for you eventually. Karen

LIS/Carpenter,



This one strikes a raw nerve with me.

If she were to say in front of the kids that "We were never right together..." or "It was wrong from the start..."

It's the same thing as telling them they never should have existed in the first place. That's a wonderful message to give to your children...

Now about that A of yours...

-AlexEN

Well more fun. Gee, can I ever stop having fun???

W: so when are you going to figure out the living arrangements?

Me: what?

W: oh come on. You were served with a D petition when I was away. Are you going to respond?

Me: have no idea what you are talking about.

W: you should get a L that has more time for you. This is killing the kids.

WTF is that??? Incredible. Oh well will see what we have tomorrow and THEN a counter proposal. Will unleash my L I think. I have had enough of her crap.

BTW, obv my L has had the papers for a while - must not be too concerned otherwise he would have got hold of me a lot sooner.

Interesting - OMW sent me a txt msg tonight asking if W had found a place to live. Too funny as so coincidental.

{{{LIS}}} The fun never seems to end does it?? LOL..it's like a carnival without the cotton candy LOL

Let us know how it goes!

Tawnya

I like the way she blames you and your L for hurting the kids. Doesn't look at herself of course and that she is actually the one that is hurting them.... Karen

A: I wasn't aware that was my responsibility. I didn't initiate this, nor is it what I want. Why would you expect me to help you make arrangements to break up our family?



A: I agree. Your affair is tearing this family apart, and I'm only amazed that you're too wrapped up in it to be able to see that.

What a selfish b&tch, I'm sorry. Time for some truth darts, IMHO.

Puppy

I'm with Puppy.

She is making it REAL easy for them.

Lis, I can't be sure, but I think I called it a LONG time ago on your thread when I blurted out,

"....because she's a B*TCH!"

She certainly was acting like one back then, and it seems that nothing has changed.

Keep doing whats right for you and the kids, dude. She is hell bent.

Lost...Listen to the boys, they speak the truth.

Its time for truth darts and a healthy dose of L driven reality. She wants different living arrangements? Let her move her sorry ass out... These are HER choices, let her live them!

Sorry dude, but she gets away with murder on you and it makes me so damn mad!!!! So glad you are obviously wearing your teflon suit and smelling like acqua di gio....

Hey all. Will comment more later. I agree it is time to get serious. And after meeting with L today, it will be easy.

She wants EVERYTHING! Essentially, life as she knows it but me not in it. Even had the gall to mention, via her L in a letter, that me contacting OMW caused a lot of unnecessary grief or something to that effect.

Oh wellN response goes in next week.

My response to her asking about living arrangements will be "I have thought about it and it is not what I want or want to see, but where are you going to go?"

NIIIICE!!!