W has agreed to have "the talk" this afternoon. Could go either way. Don’t know if it was here or in one of the many books I read but it does seem that when you let go. Tell them they are free, the struggle changes hands. The ball is in her court. She may be going through the "careful what you wish for because it may come true" Things seen to be going “ok” in my part of this world but hers is crumbling
Later Doc
Last edited by Dr LOve; 01/03/0904:18 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
And I agree and have read it before, the person that wants the marriage the LEAST has the MOST power. Once you detach and let go, it seems like the WAS rethinks their position.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
Don't worry I am not there yet but WOW it could be over in only 1 hour.... I hope to update ya all soon.
I don't know anyone locally who took less than 6 months. In fact, most take over a year. They must be referring to people who get drunk in Vegas and then wake up the next morning to find themselves married to some stranger.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
How do I feel? I really can't say. I am not really mad, I am not really hurt. The only reason I have gone extra dark on W is because I really don't have anything left to say to her. My voice when talking to her is kind of like tears. When something really bad happens like someone close dyeing and you cry and cry and cry until you just do not have any more tears left. No I am not crying but I feel like I have no more words left. I want to tell W I am not mad I just don't have anything left to say to her. Time seems to have stopped
Later Dr Love
Hope4 I think I sent you a message
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
