I am sending you good karma, Puppy!!! Remember to just live each moment as it comes and enjoy it for the gift it is. Be kind to yourself and your W no matter where the journey leads. In this way, you will be successful regardless of the outcome. You wouldn't have such a wonderful capacity for love if you weren't meant to share it! So, hang in there!!
{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}}}}
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
Bottom line is that we agreed we hadn't given it NEAR enough effort before packing it in.
For every WAS out there, THIS is all the LBS is asking for.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
Well... I have to say I was reading along most of this sitch and thinking... well... I'm not going to tell you what I was thinking... but then I saw the retroville post I was both surprised and pleased. I'm glad to see you looking into other options.
Don't expect too much. Think baby steps.... but I'm sure you already know that.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
I know I can't speak for everyone here, but I think that's what most of us want. A chance to do everything we can to recover our marriage. If it doesn't work then, ok, but at least you try EVERYTHING before throwing in the towel.
This is me ---->
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
We even made love this morning. First time in more than 8 months.
Where's Hairdog when you need him, with his "lucky bastard!" teases!
Puppy
Just wondering here Pup, but do you think that possibly you two just got into the rut that rolls around after a period of time after an affair and now you both realize it's not what you want?
Don't know, just an observation.
But yes, lucky bastard indeed.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
