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And our sun shines on.

karen, go in to your bank branch and talk to your branch manager. Explain your sitch to them. If you've been a client for a while, let them know that you have deposited checks from your H on several occassions with out any problems. Ask them if they can make a phone call to verify the check before depositing it. Don't talk to a teller or sales rep. Talk to the manager or assistant manager.

You'll have to be a bit on the aggresive side. All banks have to conform to Reg. CC and if the check is local and you do not have a new account, nor have had a problem with NSF's or the check is not over $5,000, it should not be held longer than 3 days, if I'm not mistaken.

Only in certain cases should they be able to hold it longer.

And be sure to take some penicillin very soon.

Okay, I must have mispelled penicillin because it looks really funny to me.

But then again, our sense of humor isn't so far off.

And I thought I'd give you a bunch of smileys since we're not sending anymore to our spouses, right?

Thanks H! I will handle the bank stuff and I'm sure will be fine. That's right I haven't used smileys with H and won't again.

I watched Wedding Date last night, but fell asleep and missed the last little bit though! I'm going to have to catch that again next time!!! I think I was tired b/c I slept a lot of hours. I think when I get down I usually either need sleep or exercise.

Something really weird is: well first I have to admit I still occasionally have dreams about H. They used to be loving or more like our M was in the first part of it, lately they're more being in power struggles and I'm being more assertive (wonder where that comes from???).

Last night I had a dream where I was getting remarried on a lake. Really happy with all my friends and family there. I woke up with a feeling of hope. I've never had a dream like that where I'm going on to live my life or remarried or anything like that. I guess I'm detaching which is weird b/c yesterday I didn't really feel that way... Karen

I'm glad your feeling better, was your H in a hurry to get out of the house ???

Ok you have to stop posting stuff like: I was topless in the bedroom changing shirts I seen your picture on FB and wow

look for Mr. Mom In STL, I have been using allrecipes.com since 2004 I've been loading all my recipes on there, but I haven't figured out how to make them public so everyone can see them. Its a great site, probably the best place to find easy stuff to cook. I would also suggest Everyday Food on PBS I like this show and the good looking women. They have a link to each season, so if you see a good recipe you can go to their web-page and find it, favorite so far is season 3 episode 304: Easy Comfort Food, episode 303: Make-Ahead, Serve Anytime and episode 305: Kid-Friendly, Mom Approved

Hope you have a great day Karen and keep your shirt on

Jeff
M45
W41
M10.75 years
D9, D7, D7, S6
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08

Yeah, I read that and can't believe that I didn't say anything about it.

karen, do ME a favor and KEEP posting stuff like that.

Hi Karen,

I've never posted on your thread before, so I thought I would. You've been so helpful to me and I want to thank you for that. I read your post about the dream you had and I pray that it will come true for you. I'm sure you deserve happiness in your life! Anyhow, may your new year be 100 times better than last year! God bless.

WP

Thanks WP! Don't know if my dream will come true, but makes me feel good to have a sign of detaching like that.

H started my am by emailing me about stuff. Said he will let me know in the future if he is going to pick the kids up way early like he did Friday, and now I know how he feels like I didn't give him info about D9's gs meeting Saturday. I told him I had her call when we got the info they sent from Tallahassee (said it was a Cookie Rally 1 to 4 but no directions or location and said D9's gs leaders would email with the info, but they didn't. I didn't have any more info than he did. D9 said she'd rather spend the day with her dad anyway than the gs, so I said fine, b/c I could have called one of the other moms to find out, but that meant I didn't have to. I told H I would have emailed when we found out like I normally do, but had D9 call him b/c it was clear he wasn't reading my emails for the past 2 weeks (he had taken off work and can only read my emails at work he says). So I told him now that he's emailing again I will email him as I do.

He has this thing in his mind, or I think wants to use it against me in court prob. that I'm not keeping him informed of the kids activities which isn't true. I realize I think even if he isn't reading the emails, I need to just email him with the info so I can keep it as proof he's full of sh**. Karen

Is it just me or would it seem that because he is also a PARENT that if he was interested in the K's activities that he is more than capable of finding out what their activities are and when they are scheduled? Why is it your responsibility to keep him informed? I'm just bitchier than usual today, but that really bugs me. That he would even THINK about going into a court of law and saying some f*cktarded thing like that. Any reasonably intelligent person can get the information they need by asking or doing the research themselves (if gs meeting times were posted on the internet or by calling the troup leader). You are just nice enough to volunteer it to him. We all know he is as full of sh** as a Christmas Goose as my Grandaddy used to say...its not a secret!

Karen,

I really agree w/Sugar's comments. He is full of sh*t! It's all jsut excuses and he's either doing it to make your life complicated or to use it in court. Jusy cya!

WP

Karen, remember what we were talking about a week or so ago? I told you so!!

kat