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the strange thing is that he does not seem depressed at all.

a few weeks ago, yes, he did seem depressed but not recently.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
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People that see me don't think I'm depressed either, but I'm diagnosed with depression and on AD's. Friends are surprised when they hear that from me. People can put on a good front if needed.

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He could be internalizing all the depression, so you would not see it on his outward appearance.

My h though I can tell the minute he walks in the door whether the depression has hit him or if he is upbeat and things are going well.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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This is NOT a good day.

First, I overslept.

Then I called to have my car towed (name of membership withheld but they are well known nationally) from the one shop to the other and they will not do it unless i am right there where the car is located.

I told them I could not be there, I have no transportation to get there and it is about 10 miles. No busses, either. This is not a mass transit city where everything is running at all times and to all locations.

SO I had to leave a message for H about this. He is coming over though as he needs to take S18 to work and it sounds like I will not have a car tomorrow either and I have to go to work tomorrow morning as well.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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oh gosh, it took two hours for the tow truck to arrive at the one place to get it towed to the other shop.

from there i had to run some errands and i am so tired.

the car will not be fixed today, maybe tomorrow.

h is coming over tomorrow to take me to work, and if needed on friday as well.

i looked in his trunk. two bags, a few clothes, pics of the kids in the trunk, not much else.

weird huh?

oh and today, he was wearing one of his old workshirts which i thought was kind of odd.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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What a long, long day.

Still no car but we should hear tomorrow morning.

H will be here tomorrow morning to take me to the post office and to work and will also pick me up, and he will pick D16 up as she returns from her winter retreat.

He told me to let him know if I hear from the auto place this evening and I asked him, "Should I call you or leave you a voice message?" and he said to leave him a message. I kind of laughed.

I am grateful that he is helping out so much.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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MWG,

I'm so sorry about all the problems with your car but you are right at least your H is helping with all of this.

((((hugs))))

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I hope and pray that all of you have a Happy and Blessed New Year.

Another busy day for me (am working as well) and I hope I can get my car later today.

H will be spending the day with us as well as coming over tomorrow for New Years Day.

He doesn't text me any longer, esp. at night. Heck, I have seen him everyday so there is no need really.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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I hope and pray that all of you have a Happy and Blessed New Year.

Another busy day for me (am working as well) and I hope I can get my car later today.

H will be spending the day with us as well as coming over tomorrow for New Years Day.

He doesn't text me any longer, esp. at night. Heck, I have seen him everyday so there is no need really.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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Happy New year to you also, MWG.I pray that he will return very very soon and that God will provide for all your needs and your family...I pray this New Year will be one of many blessings for us all......HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!


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