Hey Belle, Thanks for asking. I'm doing good. I have come to terms with my sitch and have found happiness within my life & myself.
Yes, we all have to draw our lines in the sand or snow - as far as our pride goes. And decide what goes over that line. Only you know. For me I realized that how - my H deals with things (M &R problems) is the only way he knows how. He doesn't seem to have searched for new ways. So my pride gave way to being more compassionate in a sense. Right or wrong ... don't know, but I can live with myself and be content with my choices.
Pride - we all have it & have to decide how much we want to let go .......
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)